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Empowering women to take back control of their sexual health and happiness

Reclaiming our sexual health and happiness is KEY to living an empowered, juicy, turned-on life!

But what does this actually mean?

For me, this means…

  • A life where we know how to look after our own sexual health, using gentle, but effective, holistic tools and practices to do so.
  • A life that is free from social conditioning around our sexuality – and where we are healed from sexual trauma, fear, guilt and shame.  Where we are deeply surrendered and able to access multi-orgasmic states and fully express our own unique, authentic sexuality.
  • A life where we understand the importance of keeping our hearts – and yonis – clear of tensions and emotional baggage and where we ensure we release these on a regular basis.
  • A life where we make healthy, positive choices for our body – what we feed it, where we take it and who we share it with.
  • A life where we spend dedicated time each day in some way nurturing and celebrating being in these incredible bodies.
  • A life where we recognise and practice radical self-responsibility for what we attract into our lives: where we know that there is a gift for us in each and every experience – and where we transcend the victim-perpetrator paradigm as a result.
  • A life where we learn to express appreciation and gratitude as second nature, finding beauty all around us – raising our vibration as we do so and consequently attracting even more beauty into our lives.
  • A life that has us standing tall and comfortable in our own skin.  Fully accepting of ourselves and others, with boundless, inspired energy to create the life of our dreams.
  • A life where we realise our own divinity – where we drop our small selves and realise our Higher Selves – and live from that knowing instead.

Healing our relationship to our sexuality

Healing our relationship to our sexuality can achieve all of the above.  It really is that powerful.

The state of our emotions has a direct effect on our physical health.  Every state of disease or imbalance in the body has an emotional imbalance at its root.  And both need to be addressed in order for balance – and health – to be restored.

This holds powerfully true for our sexual health, where emotions surrounding our sexuality really run so deep.

As stagnant/toxic emotional blocks to our sexual health and happiness are cleared out, not only is there an improvement in our physical sexual health, but we also automatically make room for what has been there all along but has been repressed/suffocated – our natural states of far deeper joy, pleasure and connection.

In experiencing such states, we allow in such a deep and tangible experience of who we actually are – in all our divinity and totality.

And, once we have even the smallest taste of that, it becomes very hard to revert to feeling small or separate ever again.  At least never to the extent that has become so hard-wired in so many of us as we have moved through this journey called life and reacted to its experiences.

And it’s certainly one helluva way to overcome sexual shame, fear and guilt.

Which is a pretty mind-blasting realisation!   And massively important to the planet as a whole!  Imagine an ever-increasing groundswell of women who really know who they are and are stepping into their power exactly as that.

That’s a changed world right there.

And… it’s happening right now.

Of course, healing and awakening to our sexuality is but one path to such a realisation.

But, if it is one that interests you, then you might appreciate a roadmap to help guide you along the way.

Following a roadmap

The Yoni Vitality Membership Programme provides a roadmap to restoring all aspects of our sexual health and happiness.  It gives us a framework to build us up physically, emotionally and spiritually so that we have the tools to realise our true state of health, radiance and connection.

The aim of the membership is to walk you through – and enable you to experiment with – the same sexual healing tools and practices I use myself – including, but by no means limited to – yoni eggs, yoni wands and yoni steaming.

Additional tools and practices to be covered will include breathwork, movement, meditations, visualisation, hormone-friendly recipes, yoga and emotional healing and pleasure practices.  As well as interesting and useful supporting resources/ information and guest interviews/guest teachers from time to time too.

In this way, restoring and maintaining sexual health and happiness will be approached from a physical, emotional and spiritual angle, creating a truly holistic – and powerful – approach.

And as we clear the physical and emotional blocks to our sexual health and happiness, we make room for more and more joy and pleasure to fill that space instead, shaping both our sex lives (whether single or in a relationship) and the rest of our lives too.  Our sexual energy is our life-force energy – and as we nurture and enable more of it to be expressed in our lives, we become fully alive, and start to squeeze the juice out of every moment we are here in this incarnation!

Healing our relationship to our sexuality is a BIG subject, I know.  Which is why I am running this as an ongoing membership – for us all to take at our own pace, with zero rush or comparison.  This journey is uniquely yours.  There is no right or wrong in any of it.  All you need is a curiosity and willingness to explore the magical depths and unlimited expansiveness of your own sexuality.

Awesome benefits of implementing holistic sexual self-care into our lives

Looking after our sexual health and happiness empowers us on such a deep level and the rewards for doing so are rich indeed.

Physically, these include:-

  • Prevention of pelvic organ prolapse and bladder incontinence – which currently affect approximately 50% of women at some stage in their lifetime – a crazy statistic!
  • Deeper pelvic relaxation – helping to alleviate pelvic pain and tension – in turn removing bladder pain and pain during sex, amongst other daily discomfort.
  • Balancing our hormones – vital for a healthy, happy life on so many levels.
  • Creating a healthy menstrual cycle – it’s every woman’s birthright to experience regular, easy, pain-free periods.  As well as being totally possible too.
  • Mitigating environmental threats to our sexual health – such as the toxic effects of xeno-estrogens, found in conventionally grown food and conventional body and household cleaning products.
  • Minimising the risk of breast cancer and heart disease – currently 2 of the most common diseases and causes of death in women.
  • Minimising the risk of other sexual health diseases and disorders.

And emotionally and spiritually…

  • Release of sexual guilt, shame and trauma – making room for more joy and pleasure in our lives.
  • Deeper sensual connection to, more sensitivity in, and love for, our bodies = more health, more pleasure, more joy.
  • Release of all feelings of unworthiness – replacing these with love, pleasure and aliveness instead.
  • Embodiment of feeling truly safe, loved and open –  where we drop all the stories, calm our nervous system and become fully present and able to drop into expanded states of orgasm and consciousness.
  • Moving from a sense of separation to connection with All-That-Is, and the personal surrender that naturally accompanies that (in all areas of our lives).
  • Nurturing our creative, life-force/sexual energy – enabling us to create the life of our dreams… whether that is growing a new business or career, creating and maintaining vibrant health, attracting our ideal partner, stepping into financial freedom or even making a new baby…  all of it comes from our sexual centre!
  • Generating “feel good” neurochemicals – oxytocin, endorphins, dopamine and serotonin are all produced during sex and orgasm, whilst cortisol (the stress hormone) is reduced.  Looking after our sexual self-care puts a glow in our cheeks and a spring in our step!
  • Awareness of our own divinity – Self-Realisation.


Self-Care is giving the world the best of you, instead of what's left of you.

Katie Reed

Filling your own treasure chest

The Yoni Vitality Membership Programme is an invitation to join a group of like-minded women, of all ages, who are empowering themselves to take back control of their own sexual health and happiness.  And to claim the lives of joy, pleasure, radiance and connection that are on the other side of doing that.

As the exercises, meditations and information are released to you on a weekly basis, you will gradually amass a treasure chest of sexual self-care tools and practices from which you can start to build and create your own custom-made holistic sexual self-care routine, varying the components of that as you feel the need.  You will also receive the invaluable support of a community of women, via the Closed Facebook Group, all holding a similar intention/on a similar path.

The pace of the membership is deliberately set so that you will never be sent too much information in one go that it becomes overwhelming.  And even spending half an hour a week on the subject matter will bring about tangible results – so you never need to spend hours on it either (although the more time you do spend, obviously the more benefit you will gain).  I totally get what it means to live a super-busy life – and none of us need to be over-whelmed by a programme that is actually designed to lead us to just the opposite of that!

Slowly but surely, by making time for yourself in such a loving and intimate way, you will gradually be able to access more clarity, energy and calm – leading to a life of ease and flow and pleasure rather than one of effort and overwhelm (that we all know only too well!)

The Yoni Vitality programme welcomes women of all ages – from teenage girls who have gone through puberty to our wise elders of any age…  we can all learn so much from each other…  and you are all so welcome.

Self-Care will give you and your body the nourishment it deserves.

Saida Desilets

So how does the programme work?

As you can see in the infographic below, I have broken the Yoni Vitality journey down into one introduction module, plus six content modules/areas of focus…

The idea behind the “Vitality Spiral” is to start with a personal assessment of where you are at – and (more importantly) where you would like to go – with your own holistic sexual health and happiness.

This assessment is covered in the short introduction module “Assess”. The following six content modules – Relax, Release, Nurture, Tone, Pleasure and Manifest – will then be worked through in sequence, one month at a time, and will provide various foundational tools, practices and information for you to explore.

At the end of the first 6 months, further tools and practices for each module will be released – but this time we will generally be moving between modules from week to week rather than month to month.

Holistic feminine wellness excites me. I'm glad to see more and more women turning toward renegade healing & self-love practices, like natural pelvic floor strengthening, and overall becoming more aware that they have the power to create their own lives and heal their own bodies.

Kim Anami

So who am I and why should you trust me to accompany you on this journey?

The very simple answer to that is that I am just like you – someone who has realised the vital importance of looking after my own sexual health and happiness.  But I am also someone who doesn’t always find that easy!

Which, I believe, makes me a good guide too – I recognise the blocks we can create for ourselves during such a process!

To give you a bit more detail… my name is Juliet Terblanche and I have been running my company Yoni Eggs, here in South Africa, since the end of 2015.

Over that time I have carried out extensive study and research into women’s sexual health, as well as being on my own sexual healing journey. I have given talks on holistic sexual health here in South Africa and also in the UK. As well as exhibiting and giving talks from my Woman Zone stand at SpiritFest, the South African yoga festival, for the past 2 festivals (and again this year).  And, of course, I have sold hundreds of yoni eggs, yoni wands and yoni steaming herbs to hundreds of women in the process.

I have also helped guide and counsel many women on their own journeys of sexual discovery & healing over this time and have launched my own Breast Love 101 holistic breast care course.

Prior to starting Yoni Eggs, I owned a health shop and studied holistic health. I am also a certified raw food nutritionist. I have had an interest in holistic health for many years and my husband and I produce a range of medicinal mushroom teas and tinctures, with mushrooms wild-harvested from our Knysna Forest farm.

I am a firm believer that all disease can be prevented and healed using a combination of the right nutrition, natural remedies and emotional balancing. And I am passionate about bringing awareness of this kind of holistic approach to the arena of women’s sexual health. I don’t believe the answers to such health issues need to be complicated, costly nor invasive – and I am committed to showing women there is another –  better – way of doing things.

I also understand the importance of self-nurture – and how good I feel when I make this a non-negotiable part of my own life. I’m not perfect at doing so – often I still get lost in the whirlwind of my own busy-ness – but such moments only serve to further reinforce for me the importance of self-care and time out.

I have had my own experience of dealing with fibrocystic breast disease and bladder/pelvic pain and have learned (and am still learning) how to navigate the tricky waters of sexual trauma.

I know the self-realisation that can occur through exploration of our deepest states of pleasure – and am an avid student of doing just that!  I appreciate the massive implications of all women waking up to this knowing – and am passionate about bringing that message to as many women as possible.

I have learned a lot on my journey so far, but at the same time I offer what I know to you with the utmost humility and openness for us to walk our healing journeys together, learning from each other as we go.

I probably don’t need to explain to you why self-care is essential as a woman… But it is crucial that we nourish our bodies…recharge our souls…and energetically inspire ourselves.

Layla Martin

And who am I not?

I am a mentor and an educator.  And a very good one too 🙂

But I don’t promise to be all things to all people.  That’s impossible.

So rest assured that if, during this programme, something comes up for you that feels too big or too complex for me to handle, I will have no problem referring you onwards to a good functional medicine doctor or Traditional Chinese Doctor, energy healer, trauma specialist…  Or to whoever else feels appropriate and useful.

And what can I help you with?

  • Getting clear on where you are in your sexual journey – and where you want to go…
  • Yoni eggs, yoni wands and yoni steaming – advice and education
  • Pelvic relaxation exercises
  • Mind relaxation practices – giving up control and getting out of your own way
  • Self-love and body-love practices
  • Basic trauma release
  • Basic yoni de-armouring practices
  • Discovering.. and falling in love with… your beautiful yoni and pelvis!
  • Body- and Sex-Positive education
  • Holistic breast and heart care
  • Nutritional and body/home care product upgrades
  • Pelvic and Core muscle strengthening exercises
  • Pleasure education and exercises
  • Using sexual energy for manifestation
  • Law of Attraction education
  • Conscious sexuality education

Self-Care comes first. Fill the well and you will have much more to give.

Kim Anami

So, how do I join?

Access to the Yoni Vitality Private Membership is by way of a monthly fee.  You can join for a month, a few months… or indefinitely… it’s totally up to you – you can cancel your subscription at any time.

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Once the membership has opened on 3rd March 2020, you will be given access to an overview of the membership’s different modules, as well as the first week’s content.  You will be given access to your bonuses as soon as you sign up though.  

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Once the membership has opened, you will be given access to the first week of the Assess module.  This includes the “Where Am I At?” assessment, along with other tools and practices to get clear on where you are and, more importantly, on where you would like to go…

The second part of the Assess module will be released to you the following week.  The idea of dripping the content in a steady, consistent manner like this is to make every week’s tools and practices easy to digest and implement into your life – and to avoid overwhelm at all costs!

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Beyond that, material from each module – Relax, Release, Nurture, Tone, Pleasure & Manifest – will continue to be dripped out to you week by week – until all of the modules’ core content has been completed.  Each module’s material will take 4 weeks to move through.

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The Vitality Spiral has been set out with each module concentrating on a different area of focus.  But this is not a linear journey – all of these modules interlock with each other, hence the “progression” through them has been set out in a continuous, circular manner.  We can always add something new to our sexual self-care practices – and the journey of sexual and personal awakening is, of course, a never-ending one.

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Some modules may appear to be more relevant/interesting to you than others – but by adopting “Beginner’s Mind” and understanding that there is always a deeper level to each of them, you will always gain some benefit from going through all of them, no matter where you are at in your sexuality journey.

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As you move from one week to the next, the idea is to try out each of the various foundational practices for each module and, as you go along, to start to compile your own unique custom-made programme using one or two of the practices from each module, according to what you feel is most useful/enjoyable to you at this moment in time.

You will probably want to mix these up a bit from week to week, as your point of focus changes and develops – or to add something new as more material is released.

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Eventually, from this solid foundation, we will continue to build on each module, releasing a new piece of content in a different module each week, thus providing the widest range of fresh material over the shortest period of time.

The long-term intention for this membership programme is to first create a solid foundation of holistic sexual self-care practices – on a physical, emotional and spiritual level – and then to continue to assess, fine-tune and master the needs and desires of our own unique sexual health and happiness as we continue through our lives.

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A Taste Of Each Module…


Getting real & honest with where we are on our own unique sexual health & happiness journey.  Getting clear as to where we would like to go – both sexually and in the rest of our lives too.  Creating a Desire Board & Statement Of Intention and setting up a Sacred Space to help us keep this focus.


Releasing stress & tension in our entire bodies using breathwork; meditation; safe, loving touch and gentle physical exercise.  Addressing stress incontinence, struggling to orgasm, pelvic tightness & pelvic pain, pain during sex, vaginismus, vulvodynia, healthy stress management and opening ourselves more to the flow of life-force/creative energy.


Releasing sexual trauma, shame, guilt & fear.  De-armouring our vaginas, cervices and releasing trigger points throughout the body – expanding our capacity to surrender and open up.  Releasing attachments to past or present lovers – keeping our sexual energy fresh and clear.  Nurturing the Breast-Heart-Yoni connection using massage and visualisation.  Cervix and Pelvic Bowl discovery & connection.


Upgrading our nutrition & body product choices – with hormone-friendly recipes for both. Addressing menstrual/reproductive health issues – eg painful periods, infertility, chronic bacterial/yeast infections, fibroids, cysts, vaginal dryness, uterine fatigue, etc  Personal yoni steaming assessment, protocol and meditation.  Inner Smile & Mirror Love meditations.


Toning vaginal and pelvic floor muscles.  Yoni egg practices for prolapse & incontinence – improvement & prevention. Post-partum care – yoni steaming & yoni egg exercises.  “Happy Yoni” daily yoni egg routine for yoni health maintenance.  Core-strengthening exercises.  Pelvic yoga.


Exploration of our bodies’ capacity for the deepest states of pleasure & orgasm.  Redefining the “goal” of sexual experience.  Yoni wand play.  Yoni egg pleasure practices.  Nature Awareness.  Sensual Meditation.  Sexual Blocks Awareness.  Toning the Vagus Nerve.  Freestyle movement/dance.  Pleasure Breaks/Days.


Exploration of sexual energy as creative, life-force energy.  Learning how to direct sexual energy to create our dream lives.  Yoni egg/yoni wand/breast love manifestation meditation.  Sensing & moving our sexual energy.  Core-solar plexus exercises.  Appreciation & Visionary Journalling.

Is This For Me?

  • If you would like to let go of pelvic tension, pain and stress…
  • If you would like to prevent/improve stress incontinence or pelvic organ prolapse…
  • If you feel it is time you let go of unwanted memories and sexual trauma, guilt and shame…
  • If you would like to relax more and have more fun…
  • If you would like to tone and strengthen your core and pelvic muscles…
  • If you would like to upgrade your food and body product choices and start to love and look after your body more…
  • If you would like to improve your menstrual/reproductive health…
  • If you would like to feel more connected to your body – your sensuality and your sexuality – and how you choose to express those…
  • If you would like to redefine the “goal” of sexual experience and explore your body’s unlimited capacity for pleasure…
  • If you would like to explore and open to pleasure in all areas of life…
  • If you are ready to drop victim consciousness and take full responsibility for your life and all that you attract to it…
  • If you would like to appreciate your life more and learn to see beauty in all that surrounds you…
  • If you would like to drop your judgements of yourself and others and step into a life of freedom and unlimited expansion…
  • If you would like to learn how to use your sexual energy to manifest your dream life…
  • If you are ready to give up the illusion of separation and discover the all-encompassing truth of who you really are…


If you have answered Yes! to any of the above… then YES! this programme is a great fit for you!!!

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Yes!  I Am Ready To Reclaim My Yoni Vitality!

Join us by clicking on the button below – and get ready to embrace increased health, joy, pleasure and connection!


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Monthly Subscription

This limited time offer ends midnight on Monday, 9th March.

FOUNDER MEMBER LAUNCH BONUSES…  (NB- Lifetime Fixed Pricing and Lifetime Discount are both valid for a lifetime – as long as an uninterrupted membership subscription is kept running)

  • Lifetime Fixed Pricing – $29 per month
  • Lifetime Discount – of 20% off all yoni eggs, yoni wands & yoni steaming herbs from (excluding shipping costs)
  • Yoni Love 101 Chart – a beautiful wall chart PDF reminding us how to show our yonis more love on a daily basis!
  • Comparison of Benefits of Holistic Sexual Practices chart – another beautiful PDF detailing the comparative benefits between yoni eggs, yoni wands & yoni steaming.



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In case you still have questions…

Do I need a partner to take part in any of the practices shared in the membership?

Absolutely not. This membership is about nurturing your relationship to your own sexuality and, as a result, all of the practices are designed to be done solo. You can, of course, incorporate what you are learning into your relationship with a partner, if you have one – but this is optional, not essential.

Do I need a yoni egg or yoni wand before I join the membership?

Not necessarily. You may find that you already own these – and are still not sure how to work with them – and I can definitely help you there!  Some of the exercises will require one or other of these items – but whilst it is preferable if you do have one or both of them, you can still follow along with the meditations without them.

Are the trauma release practices contained in this membership a substitute for conventional trauma therapy?

They are not intended as that, although I personally have found the practices I teach to be very good at releasing my own trauma. But it really depends on the depth of the trauma and on the person experiencing it. Some people will let go of stored trauma more easily than others – and I am always ready to refer out if someone needs additional support.  If you already feel that this is you, please feel free to ask me for suggestions of where you might find such support.

Are the self-care practices designed to be a substitute for conventional medical care?

They are not intended as that. They are intended for educational purposes only – following which you may choose if you wish to implement them for dealing with your own sexual health issues – or not. Or you can consult with a good Functional Medicine doctor or Traditional Chinese Medicine doctor – particularly if you have any major cause for concern. I am not a huge fan of the majority of the conventional medical industry however – hence my preference for the doctors I DO recommend. The tools and practices suggested here are also my recommendations for keeping our sexual health in the best shape possible – prevention always being better than cure.

Is there any age limit for joining this membership?

I would only encourage girls who have already started menstruating to join this membership, not before. And obviously, this also depends on the girl herself – studying material like this is a very individual choice. Having said that, I do feel it could provide a very sound sexual self-care education for young girls/women – something that is sorely lacking in our schools today. As for an upper age limit… there is absolutely none! The wider a mix of ages and the more wise elders we can welcome into this membership, the better!

How long do I need to go through each week's material?

I understand everyone has busy lives and so I aim to try and keep the time needed to spend on the material to about 60 minutes maximum per week.  AND if you can only manage 20-30 minutes per week, benefit can still be gained by that.  My current daily self-care routine takes about an hour – but if I am pushed for time half an hour works well too!  So even if this is your total weekly quota, it’s certainly a lot better than nothing.  So don’t be put off – baby steps are good!

Why is the material drip-fed in the membership?

Very simply – to avoid overwhelm! When I buy a course, I really like to have all of the material accessible in one go – so I can get an overview of it all first and then go through it at my own pace afterwards. But with a membership, this obviously isn’t possible – as the material is ongoing. And releasing a whole whack of content in one go – with no end of more of it on its way – is likely to have most people running for the hills!  An easy, calm flow of information is what we are aiming for here, not a tsunami!

Will I have lifetime access to the material?

You will have access to the material as long as you remain a paid-up member. If your subscription lapses, you will no longer have access to the membership material. But.. there will always be a downloadable component of each week’s material and I would always encourage you to download this for future reference – whether you choose to remain a member or not.

If I stop my current subscription, will I be able to rejoin later at the same price?

No – when you rejoin, you will have to do so at the current monthly subscription rate applicable at that time.

Do you offer a money-back guarantee?

No, I don’t. I have poured my love and expertise into this membership material – and have been as clear as possible about what will be included. I have also made it as affordable as possible (I live in South Africa and wanted to create a membership that is more in line with the economy here – buying dollar-based products can be quite a stretch for us!) – so it is excellent value for money. But if you are not happy with any of the content, you are, of course, free to cancel your monthly subscription at any time just by logging in and clicking on your “Account” tab – and no further charges will be made.

How do I cancel my membership?

If you would like to cancel your membership at any time, please contact me via the Support tab and I will action this immediately, whilst at the same time ensuring that this is done in a way so that you still have access right up for the rest of the month you have paid for.  Once your subscription is cancelled, no further payments will be charged to your credit card.  Your subscription will run its course according to the last payment made.  After this has expired, your account will become inactive and you will no longer have access to any of the membership material.  Founder Members who cancel their subscription will also lose their 20% Discount Coupon on all Yoni Eggs Shop purchases.

How often does the membership open for registration?

Only about 3-4 times per year. If you don’t want to join now, then make sure you are on the mailing list to be kept informed when this happens. Go to to sign up.

Will there be a way to ask questions or to get help and advice as I work through the material?

Yes. There is an optional Closed Facebook Group – Yoni Vitality – which you will be invited to join once you have signed up. Asking questions and sharing experiences together via this forum can be enormously helpful for all of the women involved. I will also be active on this group, so I can answer your questions too – and you can always join under a different name if you would feel more comfortable doing that.

If there is a technical glitch, what do I do?

Just click on the Support button to the top right of the Home page. That will bring you to a Contact Form – complete and send – and once we receive this, someone will assist you as soon as possible.